Improving our balance isn’t reserved for the ice or off-ice conditioning.

In fact, everything in the universe is about balance--

the scales of justice
our ecosystem
education
the human body
relationships

Balance is not about staying in one static state.. it’s a gentle moving back and forth between different sides.  Like the pendulum action of the free leg on the American Waltz!


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Some systems and people can withstand some pretty wild extremes on either side of center… and others are a little more delicate.


And most of the time, the level of extremes that we can withstand as humans changes over time, due to age, health, and outside factors.

World champion Deanna Stellato-Dudek is able to withstand the intense training of elite pairs skating because she dedicates several hours a day to conditioning AND recovery. The injury and burnout that forced her out of the sport years ago were a result of major imbalance in her training and life. 

Very few things push the actual limits of our physical balance as much as skating.

But what about the balance of our internal systems?
Of our minds and our spirits?

The 8 limbs of yoga are a practice dedicated to observing and finding that balance.

The first two limbs - the yamas and the niyamas - include different mindsets and habits that, when integrated and balanced, lead us on the path to a happy life.

Practicing them takes time and awareness.

The rest of the limbs are physical and mental practices that help us slow down and observe our habits.
They help us practice and integrate the yamas and niyamas, so we can reach that blissful, balanced state of ease.

So we can flow into to the blissful zone on and off the ice.

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In the Skating Yogi Membership we practice the 8 limbs, learning to balance the yamas and niyamas. Join the waiting list today. 

I said to a friend and colleague the other day that when you have a Type A skater who is obsessed with details and needs everything to be perfect, the coach’s job is to help them lighten up a little–to see the beauty and growth in the imperfections; and when you have a skater that doesn’t care about details and just plows ahead “fast and bad” over and over, the coach’s job is to help them see the beauty and growth in the details. 

As with everything, there should be a happy medium. Or, as the same friend said her mother always says, “Everything in moderation.’ 

Even the most competitive skaters can’t even experience long-term success if they are panicked about being uncomfortable with making mistakes. And even the most recreational skater can’t be happy long-term if they stop making progress because they won’t slow down to pay attention to the details. 

Like with everything in life, the goal in skating needs to be a balanced path, and what that looks like will be different for each skater and family. 

We are each born with a unique set of characteristics and personality traits, so regardless of the formula each coach or family chooses, we all must learn to harness our strengths and develop our weaknesses in order to find that balance. 

This is what the practice of yoga is all about–finding the right balance of the right ingredients to calm the fluctuations of the mind. For skaters, this translates as learning to train smarter, to ultimately skate better, and enjoy the process more. 

If yoga is so helpful in this pursuit, then why isn’t everyone doing it?

Because not everyone has the same experience with yoga! In my time teaching yoga to figure skaters, these are some of the most common barriers that stop skaters from connecting with yoga and experiencing true transformation.
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It’s easy to get down on ourselves in this sport because it’s so freaking difficult. 

There are so many ways a skill can go wrong - spins travel, turns scrape, jumps don’t go up, your feet don’t lean the right way or move quickly enough or move too quickly, the free leg bends, the arms get lost, the head wants to take the lead on takeoff, and your bum can hit the ground at any time. 

Even if we love the day-to-day grind and working ourselves to the bone–and you have to if you want to make any real progress– there will still be hard moments, weeks, months, and seasons.  

There will be times when we trip over our toe picks, fall on our kneecaps, can’t remember the steps, kick ourselves in the shin, slip off the heel, split a chin, have an asthma attack, develop tendonitis, collide with another skater, and maybe even break a bone or get a concussion.

We get a goal in mind to motivate ourselves, and we know that progress is not a straight line, but when the bummers pile up, and it starts to seem that everyone else is having better days and making more progress than you... how do you keep going?
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For some adult skaters maybe it’s a little easier than for adolescents–for many adults, skating is their happy place outside of work and family stressors. But for teen and tween skaters who don’t yet have the gift of years to teach them perspective, it’s easy to look at someone else’s journey and feel dejected. 

Since 2020 one difficult situation after another has come my way.  Some have been life-and-death situations, others financial, others mental and emotional, and others have simply been life-changing. 

And what I’ve come to really see from all of this is that there is a lot of suffering in the world. 

Everyone on this planet is dealing with something–some way more than others–and none of our blessings are guaranteed.  Not a single one. 

At the time of writing this, I have not been on the ice or able to do a an asana based yoga practice in over 8 weeks due to a hip injury. I will soon have surgery, which will potentially mean another 5 months off.  

It is well-documented that exercise is a key component of physical and mental health. For many of us, skating is the main form of exercise to help us manage life’s daily stressors and keep our brains happy. For me, yoga is even more important for my mental health than skating. 

So, when we can’t skate or practice asana (the physical postures), or when we find ourselves feeling down and dejected about skating (or anything), what can we do to help?

For me, the answer has been to practice gratitude. 

That may sound silly, because why be grateful when things have plummeted downhill?   I  certainly don't mean to deny your feelings in a “good vibes only” sort of way.

Recognizing, acknowledging, and releasing emotions is key to our health.

However, I also believe we can and should always find something to be grateful for. 
 
Since I have not been able to practice asana for what feels like a very long time, and I make efforts not to dwell on the negative, I have made gratitude a key component of my daily routine.

(It’s all about where we direct our energy (brahmacharya). 

So, even though my hip pain is pretty constant, in some ways I feel better than I have in years. 

We are figure skaters because we love figure skating, but very often we do things that steal the joy from our experience. We focus on our competitors, badmouth ourselves, beat ourselves up over both big and small mistakes, make excuses for bad habits that we have the power to change, fixate on the things we don’t like about our image (because societal pressure tells us we should look a certain way), spend countless hours scrolling social, and then stay up way too late because we are ruminating over the negative things we’ve experienced throughout the day. 

It’s not our fault–we are biologically programmed to remember negative information and experiences more easily than positive ones. This is called the negativity bias, and it’s pretty powerful. 

Just because we have a biological negativity bias doesn’t mean we can’t overcome the negative, though. It’s not easy–some studies estimate that we need at least 5-7 times the positive input for each negative one. The more ingrained the negative experience, the harder it is to change. We are figure skaters, though… we were born ready to tackle the hard!

Thanks to neuroplasticity, we can rewire connections in the brain not just in childhood, but well into adulthood, too.

First, we have to become aware of our habits, then practice replacing them with more positive and productive habits, and finally, surround ourselves with tools and like-minded people to help us in the process.  

Yoga can be a big help in this process for several reasons. 

First, studies show what yogis already know–a regular practice of yoga that includes asana, meditation, and breathwork protects and strengthens the brain .  

In other words, yoga and neuroplasticity go hand in hand. 

Second, as I’ve written about many times, the purpose of yoga is to guide us on a path to a fulfilling, happy life, and the entire framework of the 8 limbs is designed for this purpose.  (See image below)

The mechanism of yoga teaches us to pause and still the mind, which helps us slow down long enough to recognize and observe our habits. And since the first tenet of the 8-limbed path of yoga is ahimsa-non-harm, it makes sense that we would work to stop the harmful habits, thoughts, and behaviors. 

Then, being honest with ourselves (satya) enough to avoid the consumption of negative energies and ideas (saucha) and direct our energy toward helpful thoughts and behaviors (brahmacharya) with fervor (tapas), we can change our habits. 

Let’s start by eliminating these three harmful habits that I often see in skating.​